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‘I would like for professionals and society to look beyond black and white stereotypes about domestic violence’

October 4, 2015 by Inside MAN 9 Comments

On Wednesday insideMAN published an article detailing the findings of a new study into male victims of domestic violence that found the male victims who contributed to it were often arrested under false accusations and their disclosures of victimisation initially dismissed by police.

Following a surge of interest in the findings and more than 5,000 views of our article, insideMAN contacted the study’s author, Dr Jessica McCarrick, a Senior Lecturer in Counselling Psychology and Chartered Psychologist at Teesside University, to find out more about what motivated her to undertake her research.

Here are her responses to our questions.

Why did you choose this area of study?

The reason I chose this area of research stemmed from both a need within myself to conduct research which would have meaning and application to people’s lives, and experiences I’d had as a Trainee Counselling Psychologist in my early placements.

Following a six week training course in domestic violence, which was heavily influenced by the feminist model, I began to question some of the assumptions underpinning this philosophy. Through my doctoral training as a Counselling Psychologist I was encouraged to think reflectively about issues which affect people, and to focus on people as individuals, rather than broadly categorising people.

It was these thought processes, coupled with my doctoral training that began to nourish the initial idea for my research. This idea was then developed further when I began my first placement, which was in a local charity which provided therapeutic support to both male and female survivors of domestic violence.

It was on this placement that I really began to learn about the violence, trauma and psychological distress that men and women experience within abusive relationships. Later in my doctoral training, whilst in the midst of writing up my research, this charity, which was the only service in the local area providing support to male survivors of domestic violence, sadly lost its funding and was forced to close.

Knowing that there was now even less support in the local area for men affected by domestic violence motivated me to complete my research and publish it, with a view to spreading the word and making changes on a societal level.

Why do you think there is resistance to acknowledging male victims of domestic violence?

I believe this resistance is stemming from a number of complex factors, rather than one cause. It’s likely that people are resistant to believing that domestic violence towards men occurs due to the belief within society that men are strong and tough.

Recent research has displayed that stereotypes around gender and domestic violence are still apparent within society, and there is still a way to go before we move towards a more gender-balanced view of domestic violence. I believe society needs to work towards recognising the complex and multi-faceted psychological impact of domestic violence.

The research and policies that have supported female survivors of domestic violence have been invaluable to service provision and the local services for women in my area are excellent sources of support. I would like to see the same happen for men and this change needs to be supported in a ‘bottom-up’ way through research and campaigning, but ultimately from a ‘top-down’ way, in order for services to be provided with funding and support on a national level.

How many men did you speak to?

I had six men participate in my study. However since the beginning of the research process back in 2012 I have received many e-mails from male survivors detailing their own personal experiences.

Can you tell us about any further experiences the men you spoke to told you about that are not detailed in the article?

“I can now fully understand how Afro-Caribbean people felt in the 50s and 60s when they first arrived in the UK. They were treat like pariahs, they were segregated and that’s how it feels.”

“I was basically walking on eggshells… you know it’s going to happen you just don’t quite know when.”

“If a police car was driving up my street, I was wary about where they were going, whether they were following me.”

The men in my study described a negative psychological impact which was likened to ‘a pressure cooker’ and this was connected to feelings of rage, loss and post-traumatic stress symptoms.

I would like to call for professionals and people in society to look beyond black and white stereotypes and to listen carefully to the calls of both men and women and respond appropriately to the people involved in this hidden crime.

You can find out more about Dr McCarrick’s study Men’s Experiences of the Criminal Justice System Following Female Perpetrated Intimate Partner Violence here

 

 

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Filed Under: Men’s Issues Tagged With: Dr Jessica McCarrick, false accusations, Male victims domestic violence

  • jaklumen

    I’m in the States. I experienced something like this- my wife and I got into a fight years ago, and the police were summoned. We were both found at fault, but when an arrest had to be made, it was me that had to go. The officer was actually pretty sympathetic to my situation, however, and seemed to recognize that I had been hurt. He spoke to me kindly for the short time I had to sit in jail.

    We (she & I) met with a public defender (solicitor) and in a year’s time, with good behavior, the charges were expunged.

    I think my experience was exceptional, but no question, I do know that society does not seem to understand the deeper root of the problem, and see it as primarily a women’s issue. I deeply respect our city’s police department for their courtesy and professionalism, but I also know that many do not have police so well-trained, and encounter officers that are prejudicial on terms of race, socioeconomic status, gender, and so forth.

    • insideMAN

      Thank you for such a personally insightful and thoughtful comment, much appreciated. The issue is incredibly complicated and, as Dr McCarrick states, needs to be seen as such.

  • Groan

    I first became sensitive to this issue supporting a man in my extended family. His abusive wife had a drug addiction problem. I the mix was her daughter from a previous marriage and their own baby son. As with many men he sought to “rescue” his family, including his wife whom he loved. Though working with adults I am a social worker and I became disgusted with the ideologically driven obstruction and hounding of this beleaguered man by the very professions that should have helped. After far too long, years, he was given custody of the two children and has brought them up while their mother battled her demons. This has taken a toll on his mental health too.
    In fact this man wanted only to get help for his wife and support for the family to stay together . To my shame my profession worked hard to split them up and for most of the time were so intent on nailing him that they were wilfully blind to his wife’s mounting distress and problems that were expressed so violently. A person centred approach is vital in what are often far from simple situations and I continue to believe that those who should apply professional skills based on the best research but instead apply half formed political ideas to people’s real problems and struggles should be ashamed. Thank goodness for those such as Dr. McCarrick who work so hard to bring to light to this dark stain on caring professions.

  • Paul Mills

    Jessica,

    Thank you so much for your work in this are and for helping society move towards a better understanding of the fact that men also suffer domestic abuse. I to have worked with several male victims who have felt completely disempowered and victimised by the system.

    The image at the top of the article is so powerful , but for me in a really negative way and sums up the entrenched biased view….

  • http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtAjLMpbbeav06BM8pLM3VQ Angelica Perduta

    The only physical domestic violence I’ve ever witnessed was perpetrated by the female. The man did not dare defend himself. As a transwoman I experience the exact same discrimination, in that any attempt to defend myself from physical assault will be abused to implicate me, as were I a violent male sex predator.

  • http://www.avoiceformen.com/ Dean Esmay

    This has been known to be true for some time, though feminist-influenced training programs almost never acknowledge it. Be sure to see the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge for more on this (just Google it) or Erin Pizzey’s whiteribbon.org. There’s an enormous amount of peer reviewed data that all supports this conclusion.

  • Shamednomore

    It’s so easy to hold onto stereotypes where women are the victims and men are the abusers, but the evidence is increasingly showing this is not the case. Unfortunately, our response and attitudes are being misshaped by deeply flawed feminist ideology and backed up with deceptive statistics and studies aimed at supporting feminist positions.

  • Mike Pops

    Yes. Top-down and bottom-up approaches, together, spell success along a 3rd rail. E.g. the material distributed from the highest echelon of govt. (to the state courts) , needs counterpart info — if not for men as well — then at least for the respondents in the local civil DV cases done a million a year. Comprenez-vous?

  • Mohammed Ahmed M Muniser-saleh

    i hate these picture, i have had both men and women do this to me and my brothers, and the women were the most brutal.

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