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Does the NUS have a man problem?

May 31, 2016 by Inside MAN 15 Comments

Aaron Golightly, a journalism graduate from Bournemouth University, was disturbed to read of the NUS’ dismissive response to recent findings by a major think tank that universities need to do more to support male students. Here he asks, is this just one example of a pattern of NUS failures to support male students?

On May 12 the Higher Education Policy Institute (HEPI) published a 64-page report that concluded young men were not performing as well as women in higher education. However if you imagined that the National Union of Students would respond to these findings with a resolve to tackle the widening inequality gap in this area, you’d be wrong.

On the publication of the findings, Nick Hillman, co-author of the report and the Director of HEPI, said: “Nearly everyone seems to have a vague sense that our education system is letting young men down, but there are few detailed studies of the problem and almost no clear policy recommendations on what to do about it.

“Young men are much less likely to enter higher education, are more likely to drop out and are less likely to secure a top degree than women. Yet, aside from initial teacher training, only two higher education institutions currently have a specific target to recruit more male students. That is a serious problem that we need to tackle.”

“Battle of the sexes?”

The response from NUS vice president Sorana Vieru, quoted in the Independent dismissing the findings, was that the report took a “complex and nuanced issue and turned it into a ‘battle of the sexes’.” It’s impossible not to reserve some admiration for an individual who accuses a 12,000 word report of ignoring nuance and complexity within the confines of a soundbite, yet I find it difficult to believe that if you replaced the words ‘young men’ with perhaps ‘young women’, their response to the report would be so glib and contemptuous.

The NUS do campaign against inequality in a number of different areas affecting women, LGBT and black and ethnic minorities. One group that it seems to constantly overlook however is men. If you trawl the website looking for various campaigns and issues that they’ve seen fit to promote over the years you’ll notice one rather glaring omission. Whilst there exists multiple references to their fight against ‘Lad Culture’, including their own 38-page audit report, there doesn’t appear to be room to address either the subject of male suicides or the widening gap between male and female university applicants.

The Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM) reports that in 2014 there were 4,623 male suicides in the UK, the single biggest cause of death in men under 45. Given that probably around half of all members are likely to be young men, it’s an issue that would seem a natural fit for the NUS to champion, but you’d be wrong. It’s difficult to find a single thing that anyone from the NUS has ever said urging prioritised concern for this issue, let alone evidence of a concerted and organised national campaign to raise awareness of it.

“Do they just not like men?”

It’s not just at national level where what might be described, at best, as willful ignorance of the subject matter exists. Recently Durham University’s Student Union rejected an application from students wishing to establish a Men’s society that sought specifically to create an environment where male students could address issues such as mental health and suicide where otherwise they might feel uncomfortable or perhaps even less macho doing so.

Does the NUS not care specifically that suicide is the biggest killer of their male members or do they just not like men? You could easily conclude the latter if you perused the Twitter history of NUS committee member Sarah Noble who last year was suspended from the Liberal Democrats for Tweeting her desire to “kill all men”.

If you’re gay and reading this and think that at least you’ll be immune from the blatant misandry then I’ve some bad news. Earlier this year the NUS called for all LGBT societies to drop the position of gay men’s representative in a motion that also concluded that gay males were the likely perpetrators of sexism, racism and transphobia. This assertion wasn’t backed up by facts and figures or even anecdotal testimony, so one can only assume that this conclusion was reached using the logic of: it’s men, innit.

A further, yet perhaps comparatively slight, example of how the NUS care little for the welfare of their male students is seen in their handling of domestic violence awareness. Nobody could or should seek to deny that domestic violence affects women disproportionately and that it is sensible to target awareness campaigns at them. Similar to how you’d imagine the NUS would target awareness on the issue of suicides on the group disproportionately affected (but don’t).

As part of their admirable ‘Recognise the Signs’ promotion of domestic violence awareness the webpage states:

“Domestic violence can also take place in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender relationships, and can involve other family members, including children.”

Yet despite acknowledging that domestic violence exists within gay and bisexual relationships, the only support information they provide are the National Domestic Violence Helpline and Women’s Aid, two services that exclusively offer help and support to female victims of domestic violence. This oversight on its own could be considered innocuous, but within the general context of how the NUS seems to view men and the inequalities they face, it’s hard not to view the omission to provide information of any service that would help male victims as part of the ongoing culture of not seeing men’s issues as worthy of concern.

“Drinking from a mug of male tears”

The awful truth is that when it comes to representation from their union, male students are at the back of the queue. Your student rep is far more likely to drink from a ‘male tears’ mug than they are to have ever led or taken part in a cause that promotes awareness of male health issues.

You only have to look at the Twitter accounts of those in senior leadership positions, such as Vice president (Higher Education) Sorana Vieru who in September Tweeted: “I’m no fan of cis white men”.

Or the account of Shelly Asquith, who is, incredibly, Vice President (Welfare) at the National Union of Students, and boasted she was “drinking prosecco from a mug entitled (sic) Men’s Tears” and that she was repulsed at having to “face disgusting men” on her commute to work.

It should perhaps come as no surprise then, that young men feel unable to ask for help on mental health issues when structures that should be there to offer help and support, seem preoccupied with mocking and dismissing their concerns based on historical patriarchy that they had absolutely nothing to do with.

The failure of the NUS to be a prominent voice in campaigns to raise awareness of the issues of male suicides and male educational underachievement cannot continue to go unnoticed. As an organisation it has failed men by refusing to champion issues that affect male students, including suicide and the growing disadvantage men from certain working class backgrounds face in higher education. It’s either that the NUS don’t feel comfortable championing these issues, or it doesn’t care about them.

Either way it’s never been a better time to ask: Does the NUS have a man problem?

By Aaron Golightly

Photo courtesy Flickr/rawdonfox

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Filed Under: Men’s Issues Tagged With: boys education, boys educational under-performance, HEPI, Higher Education Policy Institute, NUS, university gap

  • Mark Brooks

    A great article Aaron and I think the answer is clearly yes. I noticed there are a number of student unions pulling out of the NUS because they no longer represent mainstream students. It was ever thus but seems to be worse nowadays.

    If you are interested in getting any speakers to come down next term to Bournemouth to talk about a particular men’s issue or generally about men’s issues then please let the editor know and we can discuss. International Men’s Day is on 19 November is a good time to hang things on.

  • http://www.goldenleafcounselling.com Jennie C-K

    Well done Aaron…the reason that I am a “post feminist” is because feminism has changed its agenda over the years to one looking more like revenge than a bid for equality.

    • NickyB

      Slight detour: I wonder if you read the BACP Feb issue on feminism? That to me was a cobble-together string of feminist fantasies.

      • http://www.goldenleafcounselling.com Jennie C-K

        Hi Nicky
        Yes I do remember that it seemed to be the requisite “pay lip service to feminism on a regular basis” thing – I have not yet suggested an article on men’s issues but I will think about it! I do write for them sometimes.

    • Arminds’ copy of Swank

      More like superiority since equality has been achieved.

  • AJ

    A great article but the statement that: ‘Nobody could or should seek to deny that domestic violence affects women disproportionately’ is not true. I would dispute it on the basis that there is substantial evidence that it effects men and women more or less equally. It is never going to be possible to collect accurate indisputable figures about a crime but to say it effects women disproportionately I would expect that women very clealry outnumber men by at least a factor of 5 or more. This is just not the case. Given the almost complete absence of support fo rmale victims of domestic abuse an dteh very real risk that they are further victimised by the authorities if they repor ttheir abuser it is just a sposisbel to argue that maen are disproportionatly affected. The goal should be to support all victims and to seek to reduce all violence.

    I am also not a great fan of the apparent acceptance of the concept of the patriarchy albeit in the context of its historic existence not justifying current actions. There never has been such a thing. There was differences in the division of labour and responsibilities between the sexes which best suited each historical period but in the main until recently there was a very small class of people, male and female with a lot of power and a vast number of male and female oppressed with little in between.

    • http://www.goldenleafcounselling.com Jennie C-K

      Well said AJ!

  • Groan

    This reminded me of the frightening fact that I was a student at the end of the 70s. I have to say I’m ignorant of how the NUS is funded and organised these days. However the lack of any concern on suicides,or indeed the issues of how many male students there are and the nonsense about gay men appear simply highlights in a sort of campaign against men. How an organisation representing students can argue that males students issues should be ignored because men of my generation educated decades ago are successful I do not know (as the NUS did last year when the CEO of UCAS once again raised the issue of male students). Surely the body has a responsibility for supporting all students to get the best out of their years as students.

    The interesting thing about the Lad Culture research was that the questions were (unusually) asked of males too. The results showed that male students similarly reported being harassed often at not much less a rate than the female students. Those males students were of course betrayed as there concerns were ignored and them identified as “the problem”. What the actual report showed was that many students of both sexes struggle with the boorish culture of exess drink and sexual freedom that they find associated with student life. This was turned by the NUS from a “complex and nuanced issue and turned it into a ‘battle of the sexes’.” So the absence of support for male victims of Domestic Abuse or Violence , identification of Gay males as a problem and disinterest in the welfare of male members answers the question; clearly the NUS has no time for males students.

    • http://www.goldenleafcounselling.com Jennie C-K

      Quite Groan…and the “battle of the sexes” as you call it, continues…!

      • Groan

        Not as I call it I was quoting the NUS. Frankly having married and brought up 3 children its f****ng hard work and all this b******ks really annoys me . In the real world its a hard slog involving compromises choices and just dealing with the reality . My wife has a life limiting illness and fortunately my kids are stepping into adulthood. In all this there was “we”. Nothing exceptional at all in our lives except in the eyes of numpties like the NUS.

  • NickyB

    The NUS has a big problem with men and men have a problem with education. The NUS facilitates a space of hate and ridicule on its vision of the enemy, but it’s clearly mistaken and certainly outdated in its thinking on who the enemy are. These are clearly disturbing attitudes which exemplify the egomaniac nature of people who want power (and attention?). Good luck to them – let them eat cake. More broadly I wonder whether University education is transforming into a nuevo-‘finishing school’ system for middle class women? Vis-a-vis Camille Paglia it’s a ‘safe space’ for hyper-sensitive girls who must be protected from ‘rape culture’ (I don’t think that is what most women want – but it’s what the NUS et al are creating).

    Many young men of course are being abysmally failed by the state in its ability to even see boys as separate agents from the feminized system (masculinity must be cultured to make boys into men). So of course why would young men buy into education? Social issues aside though young guys aren’t stupid. They think and see the options they have at University and for many it’s pointless to be saddled with such debts.

    I belive the de-education of boys (and by default men) is a worrying situation but given the dumbed down curriculum, the expense associated with a degree and not to mention no guarantee of employment, perhaps wise choices are being made? In many respects university is becoming a decadent detour and irrelevant for people who want a wage. The problem is however the options boys have when they decide they don’t want to buy into ‘female finishing schools’.

    What we need to culture is a robust malecentric apprenticeship system. Working class boys have been put out to pasture by the government: the boys themselves have had enough of sitting still in a classroom. Noone talks about the working classes becuase it’s more fashionable to go with identity politics – but let’s look at the working class boys who want a future beyond boring school. The challenge is how we get them into employment and earning a respectful wage. It has to be a choice they want to make.

    • http://www.goldenleafcounselling.com Jennie C-K

      Agreed Nicky. I know a few young men who are in the position of going to uni as it was expected by their parents (my own included) and then finding that a) the degree was irrelevant and b) that having a degree made it harder to get other kinds of work…

  • politicalcynic

    I was fascinated by the utter hypocrisy of Sorana Vieru in making her statements on the subject. Considering that feminists en masse have declared that women are being kept out of STEM fields by rampant misogyny, based solely on counting the number of women studying in STEM fields, it appeared disingenuous, at best, for a feminist like Ms. Vieru to claim that using the SAME standard with respect to men at universities was somehow improper.

    I’m also pleased to see another piece recognizing that the fundamental, underlying hatred of men implicit in organizations like NUS is harmful to both gay and straight men. I live in hope that more and more gay men will start waking up and realize just how toxic groups like NUS, which are dominated by intersectional feminist ideology, actually are to ALL men, and realize that the only reason feminists ever allied with gay men was for convenience-they needed the money and political clout-and now are happily tossing us under the bus. (For anyone interested in more on the longstanding history of feminist homophobia I strongly recommend The New Gay Liberation by Matthew Lye)

    Nicely done, Aaron!

  • Arminds’ copy of Swank

    The problem is feminism was needed and then when its mission was accomplished and the group saw they had influence and power so what did they do instead of disbanding? Became corrupt and insisted their is widespread inequalities still using lies like the disproven wage gap and causing rape hysteria to keep themselves relevant and getting money and more power

  • Arminds’ copy of Swank

    If a man had posted kill all women he’s not have been suspended he’d have been fired and blacklisted. The equality movements have simply pushed men down and built women up

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