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Guardian newspaper tries to silence victims of genital mutilation, because they are men

December 17, 2014 by Inside MAN 41 Comments

The Guardian newspaper has publicly confirmed its policy of banning discussions about genital mutilation in the comment section under articles about genital mutilation.

To be more precise it is trying to ban commentators from sharing views about male genital mutilation that contradict its left-wing, pro-feminist, editorial views on female genital mutilation (FGM).

Many of the people impacted by the ban are committed campaigners against all forms of genital mutilation and men who were victims of genital mutilation themselves.

Campaigners told insideMAN last night that the practice of “moderating” male victims of genital mutilation (and their supporters) who call for all forms on non-consensual, medically unnecessary genital cutting to be banned has been going on for several years at The Guardian.

This week, apparently for the first time, the media group decided to openly “pre-moderate” comments on an article about FGM warning readers that “to keep circumcision of boys out of this particular conversation… comments specifically about male circumcision will be removed by mods as ‘Off Topic’.”

Debating the ban is banned! 

The reason The Guardian gave for banning discussion of male circumcision was that “the effects and cultural practices/significance are very, very different, and essentially they’re two separate debates”.

One campaigner accused the newspaper of issuing a “fiat” that censored fair and reasoned debate and banned commentators from even discussing whether the two practices are linked or not.

To prove the point, another campaigner from New Zealand posted a comment explaining the historical links between FGM and male circumcision in the US and the UK and his comment was removed.

Boys have human rights too! 

The same campaigner, who claimed on a separate forum that The Guardian allows posts supporting male circumcision, told insideMAN:

“It is legitimate for a site like the Guardian to not want every thread on FGC (female genital cutting) to be dominated by MGC (male genital cutting). What is less legitimate is to suppress every mention of MGC, and what is completely disgustingly illegitimate is to allow praise of MGC but not refutation of that praise, which seems to be what they are doing.”

“You could argue that to discuss FGC in isolation from other GC allows you to conflate harm with human rights violation…all GC is a human rights violation regardless of the degree of physical damage.”

Marilyn Milos, a US campaigner who began advocating for genital autonomy after observing the circumcision of baby boys as a nurse, agreed that the focus should be on human rights for everyone. She said:

“I’ve said many times before, genital cutting is not an issue of competitive suffering. The screams of infants and children undergoing genital cutting are genderless and both genders die from these harmful traditional practices. Both are human rights violations and should be dealt with as such.”

Men Do Complain

One man who has been making the case to the UK government that both practices violate human rights, Richard Duncker of Men Do Complain, explained his thinking to us. He said:

“It is difficult to see how a child’s human rights are not breached by non-therapeutic genital modification. The European Court of Human Rights has set a very low threshold for a breach of article 3 – that no one shall be subjected to torture or to inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment  – for example the application to the court No. 9078/06 Tarhan v Turkey (17/07/2012) found that the applicant’s Article 3 right had been breached by the forced shaving of his head and beard.”

“Children are equally entitled to the protection of their human rights. There is a misuse of Article 9 of the Human Rights Act 1998 when adults state that it is their right to manifest their beliefs by modifying their children’s genitals. Article 9 is a qualified right in that a person cannot infringe the rights of another, even if that other is his or her child.”

Sadly, such considered comments from committed campaigners like Richard Duncker are not welcome at The Guardian.

What debate is allowed? 

To its credit, The Guardian probably generates more debate about male circumcision AND female circumcision than any other mainstream media operation. The coverage is heavily weighted towards FGM, which has been the subject of five articles this month alone, compared with male circumcision, which has generated 5 articles all year.

Furthermore, while The Guardian’s coverage of FGM is unequivocally opposed to the practice and strongly rooted in discussion about the UK’s role in ending the practice at home and abroad; The Guardian’s articles about male circumcision offer a mix of pro-circumcision; anti-circumcision and neutral viewpoints and are often presented as “world news” and not connected to the need for the UK to end the practice at home and abroad.

The Guardian claims that while “the two issues are superficially related, the … cultural practices/significance are very, very different, and essentially they’re two separate debates”.

What appears to be happening is that The Guardian has mistaken its editorial, gender political, worldview of genital with the absolute truth and is now insisting that any victims of genital mutilation (and their supporters) who think differently are quite simply wrong.

We can only solve this problem together 

I’ll give the final word to Georganne Chapin of Intact America, who told insideMAN:

“I think it’s rather curious. The Guardian is preaching to the choir if it does a piece deploring the evils of FGM. I do not minimize the problem of FGM in the cultures where it is still practiced, and we cannot deny that western countries with large Muslim populations will have to address the practice from a legal standpoint.

“However, as journalism, the topic isn’t even all that interesting on its own; the party’s over. The Guardian’s readership is universally going to condemn FGM.  What IS interesting is that The Guardian and the mainstream western press, in general, are not willing to even entertain the possibility that in order to solve the FGM problem, we might need to address MGM.”

—Photo Credit: flickr/erix

Article by Glen Poole author of the book Equality For Men

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Oxford academic slams US Government plans to encourage non-consensual circumcision of baby boys

December 11, 2014 by Inside MAN 4 Comments

The arm of the US Government tasked with disease reduction has announced plans to actively encourage male circumcision, which they say would reduced transmission of HIV. Here Oxford University academic Brian D Earp critiques both the evidence and ethics that underpin the proposals.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has announced a set of provisional guidelines concerning male circumcision, in which they suggest that the benefits of the surgery outweigh the risks (CDC, 2014). In this brief comment, I highlight a few of the key scientific and ethical issues worth considering in interpreting the CDC recommendations.

First, the CDC appears largely to be following the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), whose 2012 policy statement and technical report have already been subjected to numerous international critiques (e.g., Frisch et al., 2013, Svoboda & Van Howe, 2013; Garber, 2013; Hartmann, 2012; Lawson, 2012; Booker, 2012; Bewley & Stranjord, 2012; Guest, 2012; Androus, 2013; Earp & Darby, 2014).

While these critiques are not necessarily definitive,[1] they do raise a number of concerns about the manner in which the AAP, and by extension, the CDC, conducted its analysis of the available literature on male circumcision, and presented its findings to the public.

Incompatible data

Among other issues, critics have pointed out that the bulk of the data used to justify the AAP/CDC policies was derived from studies of adult circumcision carried out in sub-Saharan Africa—a geographic region whose epidemiological environments and patterns of disease transmission are dissimilar, along numerous dimensions, to those elsewhere in the world (see, e.g., Lyons, 2013).

This is important, because the spread of disease is determined much more by socio-behavioral and situational factors than by strictly anatomical-biological factors, such as the presence or absence of a foreskin (see, e.g., Ramos et al., 2009, Darby, 2014).

In other words, the apparent findings from these studies cannot be simply mapped on to non-analogous public health environments, nor to circumcisions performed earlier in life, i.e., before an age of sexual debut (see Earp, in press). As Bossio et al. (2014) argue in a recent comprehensive review, not referenced by the CDC, “At present … the majority of the literature on circumcision is based on research that is not necessarily applicable to North American populations” (p. 2847).[2]

In addition to such empirical limitations, the proposed CDC guidelines exhibit conceptual and ethical limitations as well. Conceptually, the CDC relies on an inappropriate construal of risk in its benefit vs. risk analysis, since it appears to interpret “risk” as referring (primarily or exclusively) to the “risk of surgical complications.”

‘Loss of a healthy, functional, and erotogenic penile structure’

To begin with, the actual incidence of surgical complications is not known, due to the poor quality of the available data on this question as well as conflicting definitions (and ways of measuring) “complications” (see AAP, 2012). Thus, as Garber (2013) has noted, “it is inconceivable that the AAP [and by extension, the CDC] could have objectively concluded that the benefits of the procedure outweigh the risks when the ‘true incidence of complications’ isn’t known” (p. 69).

Even if this figure were known, however, the CDC test would still be ill-conceived. This is because the standard heuristic for evaluating non-therapeutic surgery (i.e., surgery performed in the absence of disease or deformity) is not benefit vs. “risk of surgical complications” but rather benefit vs. risk of harm (cf. UC Irvine Office of Research, 2014).

In this case, at least one relevant harm would be the necessary loss of a healthy, functional, and erotogenic penile structure (Cold & Taylor, 1999; Taylor et al., 1996), amounting to approximately 30-50 square centimeters of richly innervated, elastic genital tissue in the adult organ (see Earp, in press; Earp & Darby, 2014). To its discredit, the CDC nowhere in its proposed guidelines mentions, much less explores in any detail, the actual anatomy or functions of the penile prepuce—i.e., the part of the penis that is removed by circumcision (see Guest, 2012 for a related discussion).

‘Even successful surgery, if non-consensual, causes harm’

As Fleiss and Hodges (2002) ask, “How can parents make a rational decision about circumcision when they are told nothing about the part that will be cut off?” (p. xii). For a point of comparison, imagine a report by the CDC discussing the health benefits of prophylactic mastectomy, in which the only implied harms of the procedure were “surgical complications,” and in which the anatomy and functions of the breasts were nowhere described.

Indeed, the CDC’s approach runs counter to the conventional bioethical (and legal) view that unnecessary surgeries, and especially those that remove non-diseased tissue from an individual without his consent, are in and of themselves harmful. As a California Appeals Court recently held (see Adler, 2012), “[I]t seems self-evident that unnecessary surgery is injurious and causes harm to a patient. Even if a surgery is executed flawlessly, if the surgery were unnecessary, the surgery in and of itself constitutes harm” (p. 496).

The only other potential harm that the CDC appears to have entertained is the possibility of diminished sexual experience, finding that: “Adult men who undergo circumcision generally report minimal or no change in sexual satisfaction or function” (CDC, 2014, p. 7).

However, the CDC’s appraisal of the literature on this point is as superficial as it is selective.[3] As Bossio et al. (2014) noted in their recent review: “Adverse self-reported outcomes associated with foreskin removal in adulthood include impaired erectile functioning, orgasm difficulties, decreased masturbatory functioning (loss in pleasure and increase in difficulty), an increase in penile pain, a loss of penile sensitivity with age, and lower subjective ratings of penile sensitivity” (p. 2853, internal references omitted).

Would the arguments hold if we swapped the genders?

While “other studies have found no significant differences in self-reported sexual functioning following adult circumcision” (ibid.), it must be remembered that a lack of statistical significance does not entail a lack of effect (Aberson, 2002). For example, in one of the studies cited by the CDC, “several questions were too vague to capture possible differences between circumcised and not-yet circumcised participants [such that classification] of sexual outcomes … probably favoured the null hypothesis of no difference, whether an association was truly present or not” (Frisch, 2012, p. 313). More generally, studies of adult male circumcision often fail to achieve long-term follow-up, and assess only a limited range of sexual of outcome variables (Bossio et al., 2014; Earp, in press).[4]

On the question of health benefits, suppose it could be shown that removing the labia majora of infant girls reduced their risk of acquiring a urinary tract infection (since there would be fewer folds of moist genital tissue in which bacteria could find a home), as well as, say, cancers of the vulva.

It is not implausible, and in fact in countries in which female “circumcision” is culturally normative, it is often thought to be “more hygienic” as well as more aesthetically pleasing (Lightfoot-Klein, 1997). Now, it is usually not recognized that female “circumcision” falls on a spectrum; that some forms of it are less invasive than male circumcision (including several forms that do not involve modification of the clitoris); and that it is sometimes done for reasons other than (attempted) control of sexuality (Shell-Duncan & Hernlund, 2000; Davis, 2001; Earp, 2014; Earp, 2013).

Right to bodily integrity

Nevertheless, it is actually illegal in Western countries to conduct the very research by which such “health benefits” could be “discovered” in the first place. This is because non-therapeutic surgeries performed on the genitals of healthy girls—no matter how slight, nor under what material conditions—are deemed to be impermissible mutilations in Western law (Davis, 2001).

Presumably, this is due to concerns about respect for sexual self-determination, a desire to protect children’s (future) autonomy (see Maslen et al., 2014; Darby, 2013), and a recognition of widely-upheld moral and legal rights to bodily integrity and to security of the person (see, e.g., Ungar-Sargon, 2013; Merkel and Putzke, 2013).

Taken together, these considerations suggest that little girls should be free to grow up with their genitals intact, and to decide, at an age of understanding, whether they would like to undergo permanent alterations to their “private parts,” and if so, for what reasons (and what kind). The same principles apply equally to boys (DeLaet, 2009; Johnson, 2010; Svoboda & Darby, 2008; Earp, 2014).

Whether a minor reduction in the (absolute) risk of certain infections or diseases (whose prevalence in developed nations is low, and whose occurrence can be prevented and/or treated in much less invasive ways than surgery; see Earp & Darby, 2014; Frisch et al., 2013) is worth the trade-off of losing a non-trivial part of one’s external sex organs is a complex question.

What is certain, however, is that the answer to this question is likely to be highly subjective, and to depend upon numerous, unpredictable, and ultimately personal factors. Therefore, it should be up to the affected individual to decide about permanent genital-modification surgeries at such a time as he or she can factor in his or her own preferences and values (see Maslen et al. 2014).

Circumcision before an age of consent is not a desirable health-promotion strategy, given more effective—and less ethically problematic—alternatives.

For the original version of this article, including references and further up-dates, visit the Academia.edu website here. For more of Brian D Earp’s writing visit his page here

Foot notes:

[1]Replies and counter-replies to some of these critiques have been published; see the relevant journal websites.

[2]The CDC does acknowledge this “translation” problem, although the caveat was rarely emphasized in the initial flurry of media coverage following the release of the CDC draft guidelines: “Much of the data related to HIV and STI prevention are from randomized clinical trials (RCTs) conducted among men in sub-Saharan Africa in regions with high rates of heterosexually acquired HIV infection. In the United States [by contrast] the prevalence of HIV and lifetime risk of HIV infection are generally much lower than [in] sub-Saharan Africa. Also, most new HIV infections in the United States are attributed to male-male sex, a population for whom male circumcision has not been proven to reduce the risk of HIV acquisition” (CDC, 2014, p. 1).

[3]In the 61-page technical report which forms the basis for its proposed recommendations, the CDC dedicates a total of four sentences to the possible effects of circumcision on sexual sensation, function, and/or satisfaction: see http://arclaw.org/sites/default/files/CDC-2014-0012-0002.pdf. Moreover, it fails to reference, much less discuss, several of the most well-known, good quality studies providing evidence of negative effects of circumcision on sexuality (e.g., Kim & Pang, 2007; Frisch et al. 2011; Dias et al., 2014; Bronselaer et al., 2013), and instead relies on other reports without mentioning published critiques of their methods. For a recent, comprehensive, and nuanced discussion of the available literature on the various sexual effects of circumcision, see Bossio et al., 2014.

[4] Of course, the CDC ignores the fact that any sensation in the foreskin itself is necessarily eliminated by circumcision, as are any sexually-relevant (e.g., masturbatory) functions that require its manipulation. As I have argued elsewhere: “To say that circumcision has ‘little or no effect’ on sexual experience … is to adopt an extremely narrow conception of that term” (Earp, in press).

 

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Why I think male circumcision is a big issue

October 28, 2014 by Inside MAN 15 Comments

Richard Duncker is one of the UK’s leading campaigners against medically unnecessary male circumcision. Here he explains why circumcision is such a big issue.

—This is article #19 in our series of #100Voices4Men and boys 

There are about three billion men alive in the world today. Approximately two billion of them are allowed to grow up with their genitals intact. The remaining one billion have their genitals cut; they are circumcised without their consent, usually when they are children.

Physical harm and loss of sensation

The removal of about 90 square centimetres of specialised erogenous tissue is clearly physical harm. The anatomy of the penis and the foreskin in particular has been studied by Cold and Taylor [1] and a fair summary is that fine touch nerves and stretch receptors are removed during a circumcision. These are the types of nerves that let you locate a splinter in your finger and create good feelings when you smile. At the junction of the inner and outer foreskin is an extension of the frenulum (banjo string) that is the ridged band of nerves that runs around the opening of the foreskin.

In their 2007 study Sorrells et al [2] identified the ridged band as the most sensitive area of the penis. This area is always lost to circumcision. There is also the fact that nerves that are cut do not join up as they heal and the brain will map the sensation from the affected area unpredictably. It is probably fair to say that a man without a foreskin experiences sex in a similar manner to a person trying to speak after the dentist has numbed their lip [3].

Such a loss compromises the sex life of the man concerned. Frisch et al in their study [4] conclude that “Circumcision was associated with frequent orgasm difficulties in Danish men and with a range of frequent sexual difficulties in women” They also go on to say that a “Thorough examination of these matters in areas where male circumcision is more common is warranted.” So far no one has been willing to fund such a study.

Hospitals regularly care for boys who have suffered complications as a result of circumcision, FOI (freedom of information) requests are pending. It seems from previous FOI requests that an almost equal proportion of casualties resulting from circumcision come from medical and lay operators. Some of these injuries are life threatening as this report of complications in one Birmingham hospital shows [7].

Deaths

That boys have died as a result of genital cutting is now widely known, news stories from London, Manchester, Africa and hospitals in America show that deaths are not rare and represent the most extreme form of physical harm.

Psychological harm

After circumcision there are a number of possible psychological outcomes. Some men, an unknown proportion of those circumcised, will go on to live happy lives oblivious to any adverse effects their circumcision may have had on them. Lindsay Watson in his excellent book “Unspeakable Mutilations” [5] describes this state as the “circumcision coma” and that such men are in denial or are genuinely happy with their status but no one knows the proportions, it seems that no one wants to know or study the answer.

Some of the men circumcised will have a negative reaction to their circumcision and may be described as suffering from Post Circumcision Syndrome referred to by Dr John Warren in his video interview with James Loewen.

There has been work done on the psychological damage caused by circumcision and a good place to start is – Circumcision and Resources Information Page – where you will find links into a lot of work on this subject. There is a spectrum of psychological, economic and social damage that remains to be studied. Some men report depression, inability to form relationships and shame about their bodies.

I have been told, by impeccable sources, of at least two suicides where a note showed that circumcision was a significant contributory factor for the suicide.

So to conclude – of about a billion men that is 1,000,000,000, some live possibly in ignorance and unaffected by the damage they have been caused. A proportion of that billion live only too aware and resentful of what has been done to them and others may feel damaged but unable to identify or admit the cause. The numbers of men in each category are unknown and the dead are uncounted. What is certain is that male circumcision is a big problem. Even if only a small fraction of that billion are damaged it is still a large amount of suffering. It is surely time that non-therapeutic male circumcision followed the path identified by the sociologist C Wright Mills and moved from being a private trouble to becoming a public issue.

FOOTNOTES:

[1] “The prepuce: specialized mucosa of the penis and its loss to circumcision” J .R. Taylor, A.P . Lockwood and A. J. Taylor Department of Pathology, Health Sciences Centre, University of Manitoba, Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada

[2] “Fine-touch pressure thresholds in the adult penis” Morris L. Sorrells, James L. Snyder, Mark D. Reiss, Christopher Eden*, Marilyn F. Milos†,Norma Wilcox and Robert S. Van Howe

[3] Lower lip key to smile and kisses

[4] “Male circumcision and sexual function in men and women: a survey-based, cross-sectional study in Denmark” International Journal of Epidemiology 2011

[5] “Unspeakable Mutilations Circumcised Men Speak Out”  Lindsay R Watson

[6] C. Wright Mills: power, craftsmanship, and private troubles and public issues

[7] Botched circumcision put 100 boys in A&E in Birmingham 

—Picture credit: Men Do Complain website 

To find out more about Richard Duncker’s Men Do Complain campaign you visit their website or follow them on facebook or twitter.

You can find all of the #100Voices4Men articles that will be published in the run up to International Men’s Day 2014 by clicking on this link—#100Voices4Men—and follow the discussion on twitter by searching for #100Voices4Men.

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Male genital mutilation: one man’s story

July 15, 2014 by Inside MAN 4 Comments

—This is article #41 in our series of #100Voices4Men and boys 

Photo courtesy Men Do Complain

I and my sister were born in the late 50’s in the UK. Soon after I was born my parents taught me what it is to be discriminated against.

They saw to it that my foreskin was cut off and tossed away, but nothing was cut off my sister’s body when she was subsequently born. If I had been born a female I would still have all the genitals I was born with, just as my sister still has.

We hear a lot about FGM and rightly so, as it is an abomination. Sadly, many think that male circumcision is performed for religious and medical reasons: so it can’t be harmful. The truth is that all those men and boys who were circumcised without their personal consent are the victims of the theft of a functional and erogenous body part.

You do not enrich the life of a man by cutting a part of his body off, you make that man a poorer man, even though he may not realise it because he has never known any different.

‘It royally fucks up a man’s sexuality’

I recently spotted the following comment in response to an online petition against infant male circumcision: “I was circumcised as an adult… I can confirm that it royally fucks up a man’s sexuality.”

This came as no surprise to me since it was as obvious as my lack of a foreskin that my wife was enjoying a more ‘earth-moving’ sexual experience than me. We are now separated after spending almost 30 years together and I reflect that sexual issues were very much the undoing of our marriage. My sex life was not what it should have been. I now live alone and am a chastened man.

It is my personal belief that all infants, whether they be male or female, should enjoy the basic right to be born unto parents that do not feel it is their right to modify the genitalia of their offspring.

‘It should have been my own decision’

My late parents felt that it was their right to condone my circumcision as an infant without medical necessity. This is something that has caused me considerable pain and anguish and I shall eternally regret. It should have been my own decision as to whether or not I chose to give up an intimate and personal part of my body, because once it is done, it is done.

Children are in the custody of their parents until they reach maturity and are not their property. I am not Jewish or Muslim, but there are men I know of that were born unto Jewish/Muslim parents that also resent the fact that they suffered the same indignity of forced circumcision.

The majority of men in this world are genitally intact and perfectly content with their status. I believe that it is a profound injustice that there is not statutory legal protection for all infant boys against non-therapeutic circumcision (such as there is for girls in the UK, US and elsewhere), regardless of the religious affiliation of their parents.

If men want to be circumcised for religious reasons let them volunteer for it once they are adults, and can give meaningful consent.

By Patrick Smyth, trustee and secretary of NORM UK

For more information about male genital mutilation, please visit Norm UK and Men Do Complain

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NHS Midwife referred baby for genital mutilation against mother’s wishes

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NHS Midwife referred baby for genital mutilation against mum’s wishes

June 30, 2014 by Inside MAN 5 Comments

A British mother has revealed that an NHS midwife secretly referred her son for a backstreet circumcision, writes Glen Poole.

Speaking outside the annual meeting of British Medical Association (BMA) representatives in Harrogate last month, the mother of two calmly described the shock of coming home to discover her four-week old son’s foreskin had been cut off in her sitting room.

The woman, named only as Emily, told her story to anti-circumcision campaigners from the group Men Do Complain, who were staging a “Stop The Chop” protest to encourage medics to oppose unnecessary circumcision in the UK.

Emily, a trainee GP from Winchester, married a Nigerian man she met working in West Africa.  She told campaigners that the birth of her first son created tension between the couple because her husband wanted to follow his tribal tradition by circumcising the boy at seven days old.

Emily took medical guidance from the NHS and spoke to two paediatricians who gave her conflicting advice. The first advised against circumcision while the second, a Nigerian, told her “it’s a bit of skin, it’s no big deal”.

On balance, the trainee medic concluded that that male circumcision is a painful, medically unnecessary procedure that would put her son at undue risk and decided to veto her husband’s request.

When Emily became pregnant again, she hoped for a daughter to avoid having to repeat the process, but gave birth to a second son.  In a video made by Men Do Complain, Emily tells the story of how she discovered her son had been circumcised when she came home to feed him after her first day back at medical school.

“The baby was four weeks old,” said Emily, “he wasn’t waking up for a feed, he was just very pale and hadn’t woken up so I decided to change his nappy to try and wake him up so I could feed him. Then I saw that he’d been circumcised and there was a lot of blood in the nappy and he’d had a ring put around the end of his penis. I was really distraught but it’s not illegal in this country so there was really nothing much I could do.”

For the next two years, every time her son cried, Emily worried that the cause of his discomfort was residual pain from the circumcision. She also lived with the fear that she would come home to find her eldest son had also been circumcised.

To this day, the trainee GP still doesn’t know who carried out the circumcision, what training they had or whether they gave her son local anaesthetic. The only information she gleaned from her husband was that the cutter was recommended by an NHS employee. “The person who did it was someone who’d been referred by one of the midwives that my husband had spoken to when I was in labour, working for the NHS,” she said.

Emily has now divorced her husband to protect her eldest son from being subjected to a painful, non-consensual and risky circumcision.

While Emily’s case is unusual, this isn’t the first time a UK midwife has been implicated in the genital mutilation of baby boys in the UK. Last year a midwife who claimed to have conducted hundreds of backstreet circumcisions, was struck off by the Nursing and Midwifery Council after a boy she circumcised with scissors bled to death in Oldham.

You can see Emily sharing her story at Men Do Complain’s vimeo page.

—Photo Credit: flickr/DFAT

Written by Glen Poole author of the book Equality For Men.

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